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RESOURCE SUGGESTIONS FOR THE CARE AND DISCIPLESHIP TRAINING:
​This is a growing list of suggested resources for use in your mentoring and one-another care ministry. It is not exhaustive, but it is a good start for building a one-another care and mentoring library. Resources like these are useful for your continuing education as well as discussion guides between you and your mentees.



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The following recommended books are listed in correlation to the lessons in Care and Discipleship Training, but they are relevent to anyone training or interested in one-another care ministry:

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Lesson One, Care and Discipleship Mentor Training suggested resources:
These lesson one suggested and recommended resources are more general in content and applicable to any and all mentoring discussions. Regardless of your level of training, you can dig right into these resources for yourself and/or with anyone you are walking alongside in any capacity.
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​Instruments in the Redeemer's Hands
, by Paul Tripp.  Considered a gold-standard book to read covering the basics of one-another care. Highly recommended.

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​How People Change, by Paul Tripp and Timothy Lane.  Insightful and helpful for all mentors to understand the biblical dynamics of change in the human heart.

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​Because He Loves Me, by Elyse Fitzpatrick.  Very encouraging teaching about the indicatives and imperatives and the need for 'both and', not just one or the other. Men, don't be turned off by the feminine cover - this book is helpful for all of us.

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​Remade, by Paul Tautges.  Encouraging reading about our identity in Christ. We all benefit from that topic.

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​Dark Clouds, Deep Mercy, by Mark Vroegop.  Very helpful and encouraging regarding suffering in general, and grief and loss specifically. Focus is on lament.

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​Gentle and Lowly, by Dane Ortlund.  A beautiful book to read with a mentee that encourages us to know how much we are loved, and how God's promises and character address our struggles and suffering.

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​How Does Sanctification Work
? by David Powlison. Consider how change occurs in your own life and you will understand how to help mentees change, too. Anything written by David Powlison is worth having in your library.

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​Learning to Listen,
by Joe Hussung

Lesson Two, Care and Discipleship Mentor Training suggested resources:
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​The Gospel
, by Ray Ortlund and 9 Marks. This is a good little handbook to have on hand when you are working with someone who doesn't yet have a strong grasp on a clear gospel.

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​Counsel From the Cross
, by Elyse Fitzpatrick and Dennis Johnson. A helpful book that reaffirms the sufficiency of scripture for heart-change and, therefore, life-change.

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​Identity: Seeing Yourself Through God's Eyes, by Conrad Hilario. Insightful book to help a mentee who is unsure of their identity. This is laid out as a devotional book.

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215 Things That are True of Me Now That I am Saved, a PDF by unknown author. Downloadable to print. This tool is helpful for saturating on scripture and as a devotional tool to remind us all that the gospel provides us in our identity in Christ.
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​The Dynamic Heart in Daily Life
, by Jeremy Pierre. A comprehensive view of how the heart works and how Christ redeems it.

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Lesson Three, Care and Discipleship Mentor Training suggested resources:
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​The Beyond Suffering Bible (Joni & Friends, Joni Eareckson Tada). This is a great resource for addressing suffering of all kinds. This applies to all lessons and topics as a general resource.

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​Women of the Word, by Jen Wilkin. Written for women, but the concepts apply to everyone.

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​Scripture and Counseling: God's Word for Life in a Broken World. This is a Biblical Counseling Coalition resource, written by various counselors, giving a good overview of how scripture applies to our mentoring.

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Quick Scripture Reference Guide for Counseling. There are other versions of this specific to youth, women, and couples. They are shown on this link as you scroll down (be sure it says "Quick SCRIPTURE Reference Guide" because there are others there that are not recommended.) These are a great resource, highly recommended!

Bible Gateway ~ a free online bible study tool full of helpful content. This is a great tool to tell your mentees about as they learn to turn to God's Word for help, hope, and encouragement. 
LOGOS Bible Software. This is a financial investment, well worth the cost. There are others that cost less, but this is Ellen's first choice and favorite study tool.
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​Making Sense of Forgiveness
, by Brad Hambrick

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Anger, Calming Your Heart, a devotional by Robert Jones

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​Good and Angry, by David Powlison

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​A Small Book about a Big Problem
, a devotional by Ed Welch

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Lesson FOUR, Care and Discipleship Mentor Training suggested resources:
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​Behind the Veil, by Warren Lamb. This is an excellent book about Domestic Oppression and Abuse. There is a corresponding workbook for mentees as well.

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​Give Them Grace, by Elyse Fitzpatrick and Jessica Thompson. This is an excellent book for all parents.

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​7 Myths About Singleness
, by Sam Allberry

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​Singleness: Living Faithfully
, a devotional for singles

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​The Meaning of Marriage
, by Tim and Kathy Keller

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​Marriage and the Mystery of the Gospel
, by Ray Ortlund

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​Marriage, Divorce, and Remarriage
, by Jim Newheiser

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​What Did You Expect
? by Paul Tripp, an encouraging book for married couples

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​Sex in a Broken World
, by Paul Tripp. For the struggles of sexual brokenness and the need for redemption.

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​Do Ask, Do Tell, Let's Talk: Why and How Christians Should Have Gay Friends, by Brad Hambrick

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​Child Proof: Parenting by Faith, Not Formula, by Julie Lowe

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​Parenting is More Than a Formula
, by Jim Newheiser

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​Parenting: 14 Gospel Principles
, by Paul Tripp

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​Show Them Jesus, Teaching the Gospel to Kids
, by Jack Klumpenhower

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​Leading Your Child to Christ
, by Marty Machowski

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​Overcoming Fear, Worry, and Anxiety: Becoming a Woman of Faith and Confidence
, by Elyse Fitzpatrick

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​Anxiety, Anatomy and Cure
, by Bob Kellemen

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​Overcoming Anxiety: Relief for Worried People
, by David Powlison

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​A Small Book for the Anxious Heart
, by Ed Welch. A Devotional.

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​A Still and Quiet Mind
, by Esther Smith. Excellent help for the thought life.

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​How to Help Your Anxious Teen
, by Jessica Thompson

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​Running Scared: Fear, Worry, and the God of Rest
, by Ed Welch

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​Worry: Pursuing a Better Path to Peace
, by David Powlison

Lesson FIVE, Care and Discipleship Mentor Training suggested resources:
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​Biblical Counseling and the Church, God’s Care Through God’s People
, by Bob Kellemen and Kevin Carson (Biblical Counseling Coalition)
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​Redeeming Power, Understanding Authority and Abuse in the Church
, by Diane Langenberg

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​Bully Pulpit, Confronting the Problem of Spiritual Abuse in the Church, by Michael Kruger

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​Depression: The Way Up When You are Down
, by Ed Welch

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​Spurgeon’s Sorrows: Realistic Hope for Those Who Suffer from Depression, by Zack Eswine

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​Take Heart: Daily Devotions to Deepen Your Faith
, by David Powlison
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​Depression: Looking Up from a Stubborn Darkness
, by Ed Welch




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​Untangling Emotions
, by Mike Emlet

Lesson SIX, Care and Discipleship Mentor Training suggested resources:
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Pray About Everything
, by Paul Tautges
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​Five Things to Pray for your Kids,
by Melissa Kruger
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​Speaking God's Language (Prayer),
by Joni Eareckson Tada
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​Dark Clouds, Deep Mercy: Discovering the Grace of Lament, by Mark Vroegop
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             ​God's Healing for Life's Losses, by Bob Kellemen

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​             Grief: Walking with Jesus (31-Day Devotionals for Life)
, by Bob Kellemen

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​           Suffering: Gospel Hope When Life Doesn’t Make Sense,
 by Paul David Tripp

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​          Someone I Know Is Grieving: Caring with Humility and Compassion, by Ed Welch

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​          Something Sad Happened : Helping Children With Grief, by Darby A. Strickland

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​          A Small Book for the Hurting Heart: Meditations on Loss, Grief, and Healing, by Paul Tautges

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​         Comfort The Grieving: Ministering God's Grace In Times Of Loss, by Paul Tautges

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​         Helping Your Family Grieve: Lament and Remember Together - Mini Book, by Darby Strickland

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​          Seasons of Sorrow: The Pain of Loss and the Comfort of God, by Tim Challies


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